13 REASONS WHY GUYS DONT NOTICE YOU 2024

 

Why guys don't notice me

For some time now, I have been approached by female friends who come to me asking, "why don't guys notice me?".

The question "why don't guys notice me?" thrown at me was a big question since I am not a relationship expert. But since I get that question a lot from friends, I dug into it to come up with this. article.

Why don't guys notice me?

There are a lot of reasons why guys don't notice you.

You might be thinking maybe it is because you are not pretty enough, but that is far from it.

The reason guys don't notice you is really simple, and if you note what I am about to list, you can turn things around for yourself within the shortest possible time.

Why guys don't notice you.

• They assume you have a boyfriend.

• Your dressing

• You don't smile

• You are always with friends.

• You don't make eye contact.

• You are too shy

• You are not friendly.

• You don't act normal around guys.

• You give them too much attention.

• You don't compliment guys.

• You don't smell well.

• You don't make a move.

Next is an explanation of each of the reasons why guys don't notice you, based on my extensive research on the subject.

Reasons why guys don't notice you;

1. They assume you have a boyfriend;

When guys see lovely ladies, they mostly assume she already has a guy and doesn't even want to talk to you.

Some also feel very intimidated, thinking that if they try to approach you, you might embarrass them or perhaps get in trouble with your boyfriend.

2. Your dressing;

When you go out, how do you dress? This could be the reason why guys aren't paying attention to you. You should improve your dressing to make yourself stand out from the crowd.

Take a cue from your friends who garner a lot of attention from guys and dress similarly. You'll be surprised at how much things may alter simply by changing your dress.

3. You don't smile;

You need to start smiling more. Smiling is infectious, and it is easy to notice.

This might sound odd to you but smiling indeed attracts people, guys especially.
If you want to be noticed by guys, you need to smile more to increase your chances.

Trust me, it works.

4. You are with your friends;

Another reason why guys don't notice you is that you always move with your friends.

To be noticed, you need to stand out from the crowd. Guys might see you, but when you are constantly walking with a group will be hard for you to know he is looking at you.

5. You don't make eye contact;

If you are the type of girl who doesn't make eye contact, there is no way you will realize a guy noticing you.

Most girls do this mainly because they are shy of looking people in the face and always miss this golden opportunity.

You can work slowly by first starting with your family.

Whenever you meet any family member, try looking them in the eyes whiles communicating.

 

6. You are too shy;

This point links with the previous one. If you are the shy type, it is common to feel you are not being noticed.

Guys might be noticing, but because you are shy and not confident enough, you lose the opportunity.

You can initiate the move by first trying to get his attention.
If you want him to notice, start noticing him first.

7. You are not friendly

Most guys are terrified of rejection, so they won't approach you or notify you even if they like you, and your not being friendly can worsen the case.

They believe that attempting to notice you will get them into trouble. Thus, it isn't worth it.

8. You don't act normal around guys

Ladies that act strangely are a major turn-off for men.

Maybe you don't act as a woman is supposed to when you're around boys. Please forgive me, but if you want to be noticed, you must be yourself. If you want guys to see you, act normal, like you would around your friends, and you will attract the right guy.

9. You give them too much attention

This might sound odd but giving guys too much attention makes them value you less.

It is that simple.

Guys always fight for what they cannot get quickly, so give them less attention if you want guys to notice you.

10. You don't compliment guys

Complimenting people makes them feel good, and it is something that most people never forget.

This is because compliments are something that guys rarely get. Therefore by standing out to compliment them, you will have his attention any time you are around.

11. Smell good

This is a simple approach to catch the attention of anyone, especially men.

Purchase perfumes that smell excellent and are distinctive enough to set you apart from other women.

Because your perfume is one-of-a-kind, you will always catch their attention.

As a man, regardless of how you appear, this is one thing that catches my eye.

12. You don't make a move

Make a move if you want to be noticed.

Yes, take action. Not every guy has the courage to approach you or even try to notify you.

Guys, like women, are shy at times, and it takes a lot of effort to catch their attention. It's also possible that the guy you want has a lot on his mind and is too preoccupied with it to notice other things around him or you.

You making a move will jolt him awake.

13. Talk to them

Don't be a boring person; engage in more conversation with guys on any issue.

Discuss topics that interest you or that you despise.

People will automatically connect with you if you are interactive, and guys will as well.

 

Conclusion

These are just a few why men aren't paying attention to you.

Examine yourself to identify which of these is the cause of your lack of recognition and make changes.

Examine all of the causes and solutions and apply them to yourself.

Hopefully, my tiny contribution will make a significant difference in your life.

Which of these reasons applies to you the most?

Please leave your thoughts and ideas in the box below.

Best wishes.