Are you at the point where you feel so sad and depressed because you see all of your friends getting into relationships, some even getting married, and you feel left out?
If you feel so, then this article is just for you.
Reasons why no one approaches you.
You don't smile.
A smile is something that attracts a lot of attention to one's self.
But
if you are always with a straight face anytime you step out, girl, you
are sending the guys a message that you do not want to be disturbed.
Yes,
that is the signal you are giving off when you always have a
straight face and don't smile.
I have met several people
who tell me they have this problem and say that's how they are and that they are not usually the people's person.
How can you come to this conclusion without trying to examine yourself first? Maybe it is instead a problem on your side. If you don't smile and always keep a straight face, how do you expect people to approach you?
You look taken
Well, this could take different dimensions.
I have this friend who
probably will be reading this, so no juicy details, sorry, LOL; she was
fed up with why the guy she likes doesn't approach her but always
notice her when she walks by.
What she found out shocked her; she didn't expect such a little thing was what was really blocking her chances.
It has her ring. Yes, something as little as a fashion ring could be what is actually making guys not approach you.
It might look like a simple ring to you, but that is not the signal it is sending out.
You are not friendly.
How do you expect somebody to approach you if you don't look friendly?
Nobody wants to be with a boring person, that's one fact.
It is easier to make friends when you have positive energies and positive.
You don't dress well
how do you expect someone to approach you and ask to even be your friend if you don't look presentable?
The first thing that attracts people when they first meet you is your appearance.
Your dress and shoes are what people look at first when they want to approach.
Even though many people don't care about how they dress before you become their friends, dressing still will leave an impression on the one you want to approach you.
You hang out with a group.
If you are constantly walking with friends, the probability of you being approached is very low.
Guys don't really like to be embarrassed or intimidated; this usually happens when you constantly move with a group.
Most girls who move in groups with friends always will have at least one friend who does things to embarrass or intimidate guys who try to approach.
And since nobody wants to be intimidated by your friends, you will not be approached.
You don't make eye contact.
If you don't make eye contact with who you want to approach, he will not know your intentions or whether you want him to come to you or not.
You don't make a move.
You will have to make a move when you want people to approach you.
If you don't make a move, he might not notice you. Maybe it is because he might be shy so if you really want to be approached, try to make a move.
How to get people to approach you
Dress well
You have a higher chance of being approached when you dress well. You naturally will attract people when you are looking good.Smile
when you are beaming with a smile, you attract people to yourself.Smiling itself is a form of communication that signals that you want to be approached. Nobody will try to come to you if you are always with a severe face.
Leave the pack of friends.
Another easy way to get approached is to leave the pack of friends. If you are constantly moving with your friends, it lowers the chances of being closed and talked to.
Guys don't like rejection and intimidation. They will not approach you when you are constantly moving with your pack of friends because definitely there will be one friend that will try to embarrass him in one way or another.Smell good
Change your perfume; get something inviting that can make people notice you. When you smell well, it will make you stand out from other people, which will make people move to you and not to anyone else.
You look too busy
If you are always busy or act like you are busy, no one will want to disturb you or be a distraction, and they will pull back.If he really likes you, he will not approach you if you look too busy because he will not want to leave a wrong first impression or look so rude.
Try to be relaxed and make yourself less busy; it increases your chances of being noticed and approached.
Look happy and inviting.
Nobody wants to be with a boring person. Yes, we all have our boring lives to deal with, so if you want someone to approach you, be unique and always stay positive and happy.
It actually does work.
Smile
Let the magic of smiling do the work for you. Smile more and look cheerful always.
Dress well
If you want to be approached, dress well. Look at how your friends are constantly approached and copy their dressing style.
Why do guys approach me?
Guys approach you because your smile, dress nicely, or have a pleasant odor. If you're wondering why guys are constantly approaching you, you're doing something right that is attractive to them.
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