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How to make time for yourself as a parent

 


Do you wonder how to make time for yourself as a parent? Well, here's something for you;

We all know how tiresome it could be when at home with your child.

Your child's constant shouting and naughtiness can really get to you, overwhelming you where you even have the thought of asking yourself why in the world did you choose this part to become a parent. 

Well, worry no more because, in today's article, I will be exposing the hacks I've tried and which incredibly worked out for me, helping me to have that me-time I've always dreamt about.

Here's a brief on how it all started;

So I have this 6-year-old adorable boy I love so much, but the only problem I have with him is that he is naughty and worries a lot.

I am not a terrible parent, but we all get overwhelmed when we just can't take it anymore.

I spend most of my weekends home with him, which means two full days with him at home.

When he is playing and am doing other things. 

He always has company; his friend's mom, a single mom, always drops his son with us, so it has nothing to do with him not having a playmate.

I just needed some time to cool off a little, even if it's up to 5 minutes, thats good for me.

Looking online was the only option that came to mind, so one evening, I took it on myself to find answers,s and I am glad I took that step because it was the game-changer.

I decided to put across what worked for me to help other parents who are also looking for ways out.

1. Create your safe spot;

whether it is a room, on the balcony, or even the stairways that work best for you.

How I go about this, which actually surprises me so much because it works a lot is I go and sit on the stairs ( thats my particular spot ), and within a minute he shows up as expected then I tell him, ''son, mummy needs some time to think because her head is messy''. Thats all!

It always works, and I dont even know how!

I get my time out to clear my head a little; at least 5 minutes away is always worth it.

Try this when you feel like giving up on your kids; it's the key we've all been looking for.


2. Set up an irresistible playground;

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Since you are the parent, you definitely know what toys she loves. With a bit of creativity, set up a combination of those toys with other interesting toys of hers at unexpected places.

The more creative you are with the setup, the more time you get to have your space.


3. Share the responsibilities;

At least one night off a week can help you have some alone time for yourself.

If your partner is around, share the responsibilities with him on rotation.

You can do it on weekends; he comes over to take full responsibility for the kids on the first weekend. Whatever the kids' needs, he must make sure he provides them whiles you use that time to have the alone time you've always been dreaming of.

Though it might just be a weekend rotation, it can help give you the peace you want.

Related topic; The secret guide on how to be a better parent


4. Face time with family;

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Ask your friends or family to step in for a few minutes by letting them facetime your child.

Kids love to hang out with familiar people, so giving that task to your mum or dad can really help give you what you want.

They can use the opportunity to ask them about the school, their friends, or any other things that might interest them to stay online for a while.

5. Ask for help

if you are okay with your keeps spending time with others, you can try that too. 

Your friends can help look after your kids for you at their homes. 

Your parents too can help out. Since most grandparents love spending time with their grandchildren, they will be more than happy to take them off your hands.

6. Go for a drive;

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Yes, just grab the car keys and drive your way to freedom.

I know you can't leave your kids alone, so why not ask a friend or family to come over, even if to spend the night.

You would be doing so much good by going out for a drive. At least you get to spend some time alone without still being worried about your kids since you know they are in safe hands.

It is my favorite therapy I often involve myself with whenever I am overwhelmed by the kids.

7. Go out for a walk;

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I also use this option, especially at night. Going out for a walk has been something I have always been a fan of, especially if I want to be with myself. The night breeze alone always brings comfort and good peace of mind.

If you do the same, it will work for you too. You can decide to just walk around the block whiles your partner is home with the kids.


I hope these six tips are what you need to release some of your built-up stress as a parent.

You are liberated!

Thanks for reading.



















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